Private practice

Sending session reminder emails to therapy clients

Manually reminding clients about upcoming sessions takes time you don't have — and if you forget, a no-show costs you an hour of income.

Published: March 2026

The problem with manual reminders

Most therapists in private practice send reminders the same way: a text or email the evening before, composed by hand, for every client on tomorrow’s schedule. It works — until you’re tired, busy, or simply forget. A missed reminder is a missed opportunity to prevent a no-show, and a no-show is an hour of lost income with no recourse if you don’t have a cancellation policy in place.

Even when it works, it’s time you shouldn’t have to spend. Sending the same message, personalised slightly for each client, every week, indefinitely — that’s not clinical work, it’s administration.

The quick answer

You can send reminders manually via email or SMS, scheduling them yourself as recurring calendar tasks. Most therapists use a mix of Google Calendar reminders and direct texts. This works at low volume but doesn’t scale, and relies entirely on you remembering to do it.

The better approach is automation — writing one template that personalises itself for each client and fires on a schedule you set once.

How automated reminders work in Counselling Buddy

Counselling Buddy sends email and SMS reminders automatically before every session. You write the template once — including placeholders like %CLIENTNAME%, %SESSIONDATE%, and %SESSIONTIME% — and the platform fills them in for every client.

By default, reminders go out at 24 hours and 1 hour before each session. You can adjust the timing, create different templates for different session types, and override the settings for individual sessions if needed.

If you’re taking leave, a single switch in your account settings pauses all outgoing communications until you’re back.

What a reminder template looks like

Hi %CLIENTNAME%,

Just a reminder that your session is booked for %SESSIONDATE% at %SESSIONTIME%.

If you need to reschedule, please get in touch as soon as possible.

See you soon,
[Your name]

Every email goes out with the right details for that client — no manual editing, no copy-paste errors.

Setting it up

  1. Go to Settings → Communication Templates and write your reminder template
  2. Go to Settings → Session Types and attach the template to each session type
  3. Book a session — reminders will fire automatically from that point on

That’s the full setup. You don’t need to touch it again unless you want to change the wording.

Handle this automatically with Counselling Buddy

Built for UK therapists in private practice. Set it up once, and it runs itself.